Friday, February 25, 2011

Fisherman Story

One day a fisherman was lying on a beautiful beach with his fishing pole propped up in the sand and his solitary line cast out into the sparkling blue surf.

He was enjoying the warmth of the afternoon sun and the prospect of catching a fish.

About that time, a businessman came walking down the beach trying to relieve some of the stress of his workday. He noticed the fisherman sitting on the beach and decided to find out why this fisherman was fishing instead of working harder to make a living for himself and his family.

"You aren't going to catch many fish that way," said the businessman to the fisherman, "you should be working rather than lying on the beach!"

The fisherman looked up at the businessman, smiled and replied, "And what will my reward be?"

"Well, you can get bigger nets and catch more fish!" was the businessman's answer.

"And then what will my reward be?" asked the fisherman, still smiling.

The businessman replied, "You will make money and you'll be able to buy a boat which will then result in larger catches of fish!"

"And then what will my reward be?" asked the fisherman again.

The businessman was beginning to get a little irritated with the fisherman's questions.

"You can buy a bigger boat and hire some people to work for you!" he said.

"And then what will my reward be?" repeated the fisherman.

The businessman was getting angry. "Don't you understand? You can build up a fleet of fishing boats, sail all over the world, and let all your employees catch fish for you!"

Once again the fisherman asked, "And then what will my reward be?"

The businessman was red with rage and shouted at the fisherman, "Don't you understand that you can become so rich that you will never have to work for your living again! You can spend all the rest of your days sitting on this beach looking at the sunset. You won't have a care in the world!"

The fisherman, still smiling, simply looked up, nodded and said: "And what do you think I am doing now?" He then looked at the sunset, with his pole in the water, without a care in the world.

However, both the fisherman and the businessman were wrong in their materialistic outlook. We don't have to work hard so that we become rich, sit in the beach and have no care in the world. Islam teaches us to work hard to serve our family and our community and earn the pleasure of Allah (swt), regardless of whether we are poor or rich.

Inspiring Quotes

1) Never expect things to happen, struggle and make them happen. Never expect yourself to be given a good value, create a value of your own.

2) If a drop of water falls in lake there is no identity. But if it falls on a leaf of lotus it shines like a pearl. So choose the best place where you would shine.

3) Falling down is not defeat, real defeat is when you are refusing to get up.

4) Ship is always safe at shore, but it is not built for it.

5) When you are successful your well-wishers know who you are, but when you are unsuccessful you know who your well-wishers are.

6) Never take some one for granted, hold every person close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realize that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones.

7) The fragrance of flowers spreads only in the direction of the wind. But the goodness of a person spreads in all directions!

8) Knowledge is like a fruit. When a fruit grows on a branch of a tree, its weight causes that branch to bend and bow. Similarly, when knowledge increases in a person, it causes him to become humble and not Mutakabbir (proud and boastful).

9) Under the shade there is always darkness.

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Motivation: Don't Give Up

There is nothing in the world to bring us to the place where we desire to be other than the fact that we have decided that as long as we see the future as bright as it could be in our own dreams, visions and aspirations that we refuse to give up no matter what today shows us.

We may experience days that may say no to us. We may experience seasons that would challenge our belief in that which we think is what takes us to the top, we may see tomorrow say no that we won't get there but do we have a clear cut dream, do we have a clear cut vision? If we did we are not to give up.

There is something we need to understand concerning vision. Vision is the only thing that gives us the things we are in us which makes us not to be seen trapped by the mirage and illusion of life.
Vision is the very road map that says to us-remain there, the fog shall be lifted, the very things that challenge our own existence that make us feel that we are not to embark on our various life journey are only there to take us off the visions we have.

Vision is like the thing that gets you to remain there, when there is nothing else to hold unto-you have your vision, you have your reasons to live, you have your reasons not to be taken to the places of these worlds illusions that could tell you that there is no reason to live any longer.

Where there is no vision there is no hope. Where there are no dreams in the lives of people, they are seen to live on the hopes, dreams, and visions of the society they find themselves in and such dreams, hopes and visions are sometimes if not all the time subject to the changes that bring frustrations, that bring pains and disappointments to those who live to be seen in them.

Decide today to begin life in the direction of your own dreams, decide today to continue in this life in the direction of your own visions. Many who are seen stranded in the places of this worlds difficulties were those, mainly those who never had their own personal dreams, visions and aspirations.

They were walking tall on the very dreams of others and such dreams were never theirs.

They were seen standing tall on the visions of the very society that could decide to tell all that it is not able anymore to carter for those who are within its own arms of refuge all because the economies of nations fail and the broad dreams that hold people who depend on them shatter on the platitudes of decisions never made within the hearts and souls of those who are seen to live with the shattered dreams that were never built by them.

You are to think to have your own dreams today; you are to think to take your own visions to the world. Let the world run with your vision instead of you running with visions that you may never know where it takes you to, visions that you may never know how far it could carry you.

Muonaka Uchenna http://www.planet2express.com

Monday, February 21, 2011

Hiii... Guys...

Hii.. Guys, How r you today? Hope that u all not so stress and have a nice day.As mentioned earlier, I will share a lot of stories, tips, articles and other stuff which I get from email sent to me or from other side. Hopefully that, all this reading stuff can help you all to have a really nice life without any stress that pressure u all. Have a nice day...


Have A Nice Day lyrics


Why you wanna tell me how to live my life?
Who are you to tell me if it's black or white?
Mama, can you hear me? Try to understand
Is innocence the difference between a boy and a man?
My daddy lived a lie, it's just the price that he paid
Sacrificed his life, just slavin' away

Ooh, if there's one thing I hang onto
That gets me through the night
I ain't gonna do what I don't want to
I'm gonna live my life

Shining like a diamond, rolling with the dice
Standing on the ledge, show the wind how to fly
When the world gets in my face
I say, have a nice day
Have a nice day

Take a look around you, nothing's what it seems
We're living in the broken home of hopes and dreams
Let me be the first to shake a helping hand
Anybody brave enough to take a stand
I knocked on every door down every dead end street
Looking for forgiveness and what's left to believe?

Ooh, if there's one thing I hang onto
That gets me through the night
I ain't gonna do what I don't want to
I'm gonna live my life

Shining like a diamond, rolling with the dice
Standing on the ledge, and show the wind how to fly
When the world gets in my face
I say, have a nice day
Have a nice day

Ooh, if there's one thing I hang onto
That gets me through the night
I ain't gonna do what I don't want to
I'm gonna live my life

Shining like a diamond, rolling with the dice
Standing on the ledge, and show the wind how to fly
When the world gets in my face
I say, have a nice day
Have a nice day, have a nice day

When the world keeps trying, to drag me down
I've gotta raise my hands, gonna stand my ground
I say, hey, have a nice day
Have a nice day, have a nice day
Songwriters: Sambora, Richie; Bon Jovi, Jon; Shanks, John;

The Father's Eyes

Bob Richards, the former pole-vault champion, shares a moving story about a skinny young boy who loved football with all his heart. Practice after practice, he eagerly gave everything he had. But being half the size of the other boys, he got absolutely nowhere. At all the games, this hopeful athlete sat on the bench and hardly ever played.

This teenager lived alone with his father, and the two of them had a very special relationship. Even though the son was always on the bench, his father was always in the stands cheering. He never missed a game.

This young man was still the smallest of the class when he entered high school. But his father continued to encourage him but also made it very clear that he did not have to play football if he didn't want to.

But the young man loved football and decided to hang in there He was determined to try his best at every practice, and perhaps he'd get to play when he became a senior. All through high school he never missed a practice nor a game but remained a bench-warmer all four years.

His faithful father was always in the stands, always with words of encouragement for him.

When the young man went to college, he decided to try out for the football team as a "walk-on." Everyone was sure he could never make the cut, but he did. The coach admitted that he kept him on the roster because he always puts his heart and soul to every practice, and at the same time, provided the other members with the spirit and hustle they badly needed.

The news that he had survived the cut thrilled him so much that he rushed to the nearest phone and called his father. His father shared his excitement and was sent season tickets for all the college games.

This persistent young athlete never missed practice during his four years at college, but he never got to play in a game. It was the end of his senior football season, and as he trotted onto the practice field shortly before the big playoff game, the coach met him with a telegram.

The young man read the telegram and he became deathly silent. Swallowing hard, he mumbled to the coach, "My father died this morning. Is it all right if I miss practice today?" The coach put his arm gently around his shoulder and said, "Take the rest of the week off, son. And don't even plan to come back to the game on Saturday."

Saturday arrived, and the game was not going well. In the third quarter, when the team was ten points behind, a silent young man quietly slipped into the empty locker room and put on his football gear. As he ran onto the sidelines, the coach and his players were astounded to see their faithful teammate back so soon. "Coach, please let me play. I've just got to play today," said the young man. The coach pretended not to hear him. There was no way he wanted his worst player in this close playoff game. But the young man persisted, and finally feeling sorry for the kid, the coach gave in. "All right," he said. "You can go in."

Before long, the coach, the players and everyone in the stands could not believe their eyes. This little unknown, who had never played before was doing everything right. The opposing team could not stop him. He ran, he passed, blocked, and tackled like a star. His team began to triumph. The score was soon tied. In the closing seconds of the game, this kid intercepted a pass and ran all the way for the winning touchdown.

The fans broke loose. His teammates hoisted him onto their shoulders. Such cheering you never heard. Finally, after the stands had emptied and the team had showered and left the locker room, the coach noticed that this young man was sitting quietly in the corner all alone The coach came to him and said,"Kid, I can't believe it. You were fantastic! Tell me what got into you? How did you do it?"

He looked at the coach, with tears in his eyes, and said, "Well, you knew my dad died, but did you know that my dad was blind?" The young man swallowed hard and forced a smile, "Dad came to all my games, but today was the first time he could see me play, and I wanted to show him I could do it!"

Like the athlete's father, God is always there cheering for us. He's always reminding us to go on. He's even offering us His hand for He knows what is best, and is willing to give us what we need and not simply what we want. God has never missed a single game. What a joy to know that life is meaningful if lived for the Highest. Live for HIM for He's watching us in the game of life!

A Motivational story about Positive Thinking


Read this, and let it really sink in... Then, choose how you start your day tomorrow...


Jerry is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!" He was a unique manager because he had several waiters who had followed him around from restaurant to restaurant.

The reason the waiters followed Jerry was because of his attitude. He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Jerry was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Jerry and asked him, I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?" Jerry replied, "Each morning I wake up and say to myself, Jerry, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.

I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.
"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested. "Yes, it is," Jerry said. "Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life."

I reflected on what Jerry said. Soon thereafter, I left the restaurant industry to start my own business. We lost touch, but I often thought about him when I made a choice about life instead of reacting to it.

Several years later, I heard that Jerry did something you are never supposed to do in a restaurant business: he left the back door open one morning and was held up at gun point by three armed robbers. While trying to open the safe, his hand, shaking from nervousness, slipped off the combination. The robbers panicked and shot him. Luckily, Jerry was found relatively quickly and rushed to the local trauma center. After 18 hours of surgery and weeks of intensive care, Jerry was released from the hospital with fragments of the bullets still in his body.

I saw Jerry about six months after the accident. When I asked him how he was, he replied, "If I were any better, I'd be twins. Wanna see my scars?" I declined to see his wounds, but did ask him what had gone through his mind as the robbery took place. “The first thing that went through my mind was that I should have locked the back door," Jerry replied. "Then, as I lay on the floor, I remembered that I had two choices: I could choose to live or I could choose to die. I chose to live."

"Weren't you scared? Did you lose consciousness?" I asked. Jerry continued, "...the paramedics were great. They kept telling me I was going to be fine. But when they wheeled me into the ER and I saw the expressions on the faces of the doctors and nurses, I got really scared. In their eyes, I read 'he's a dead man.'

I knew I needed to take action." " What did you do?" I asked. "Well, there was a big burly nurse shouting questions at me," said Jerry. "She asked if I was allergic to anything. 'Yes,' I replied. The doctors and nurses stopped working as they waited for my reply. I took a deep breath and yelled, 'Bullets!' Over their laughter, I told them, 'I am choosing to live. Operate on me as if I am alive, not dead.'"

Jerry lived thanks to the skill of his doctors, but also because of his amazing attitude. I learned from him that every day we have the choice to live fully. Attitude, after all, is everything.


Positive thinking the the first step towards a happy life.

Attitude is everything

If everyone applies just these, the whole world will live in happiness.
If you could choose to change one thing in your life right now what would it be? Some of you may be struggling with your health. Others it could be relationships. Possibly its time for a new career. Maybe you've had enough of being in financial distress. Whatever you believe needs the most urgent attention in your life right now, you can improve it starting today.

When was the last time you experienced a "defining moment"? This could be the day for your next one, but you need to make that decision because no one else can do it for you. One day I decided to make better choices regarding my health and began to eat healthier plus exercise on a regular basis. I am now reaping the benefits and am in the best shape of my life.

My finances turnaround when I started to apply what has worked for millions of people. I started to take control over my finances instead of allowing them to control me. Now I am giving, investing and having more left over each month than I used to earn each month. Would you like to be in that position?

Over the past year I also spent a lot of time seeking God regarding what He wants me to do for Him. He made it very obvious to me and I am enjoying what I am doing. Many people try to figure out what their purpose is in life. My recommendation is to go to God and ask Him. He created you and He knows exactly what you are good at and would love to do.

When will changes take place in your life? They begin when you choose to think, speak, believe and act in a new way. You have a free will you can use to work for you and not against you. The other day I heard a father say about his son, "He is his own worst critic". Does that sound familiar? My recommendation was to be more accepting instead of trying to be a perfectionist.

If you truly desire to see improvements in your life, then you are going to have to do what works best for you. It may take some time to see the results, but just knowing you are going in the right direction will inspire you to continue. I encourage you find others who can inspire, motivate and encourage you as you go through this transition.

You must start where you are right now and determine in your heart what direction you want to go. A better life is available to you right now. Are you going to go after it? No one is going to stop you from doing what is best for you and others. Change is inevitable in your life. Its time to be specific with the changes you desire. Choose one area of your life and begin to make one change a day for the next week.

Remember your health is not going to change for the better overnight, but you can start today and head in that direction. Your finances will improve when you apply financial wisdom. Even your relationships can improve when you know what you are looking for in a healthy relationship. So now, make the best decision of your life today and experience your next defining moment.

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